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Keep up your chops over break
without missing the festivities!
“There are always other people around when it’s time to practice.”So you’ve set a time to practice, but when that time comes…
your sister has her stuffed animals lined up on the piano,
your dad is trying to get you to taste his freshly-b…Read More![Profile Photo]()
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Like this hook. “Keep up your chops” is specific and evocative. Focuses on the competence you’ve gained, rather than feelings of guilt and shame for not practicing.
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i can make between 2-5 thursday…
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Let’s do 2pm EST. The Zoom link is:
https://bit.ly/2SGDiSP
Meeting ID: 488 824 8412
Passcode: “hv1007”-
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AMMEND – can we do 2:30pm EST???
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works for me! 🙂
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25 OBJECTIONS:
1. Too expensive
2. No time
3. Too far away
4. Too much traffic5. Too old
6. Too young
7. Not experienced enough
8. Too many bad habits9. Forgets to practice
10. Unwilling to practice
11. Practice is ruining our relationship!12. Not talented
13. Tone deaf
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I love it Ruth ! Now I am curious to see the piece you write on it 🙂
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I love this too!!!! Can this be a piece in itself??? I want to make a list too now!
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I’ve already put these questions into my Calendly link. At the moment, I’m totally experimenting, and I anticipating changing them. I already considering using some of Ann B’s questions instead of mine. And while I’ve asked the financial question @Q10, I haven’t tied a number to it yet.
Q2: What are the most important changes you want to make i…Read More
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Not sure how I would answer this question: : What is the State or Feeling that would make your problem impossible to have?
Q10, you have to give a price for this question. Is it $200 a month or a session? I wouldn’t be able to answer if there is not a dollar figure tied to it.-
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Thanks, Amy! I know Q3 “make your problem impossible to have” can be a headscratcher. It is designed to throw people a little bit outside their box, and might be better as a question asked during a Zoom call. I’m just testing it here. Thanks, again!
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Q3 is so much better than what we looked at last Wednesday!
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Thanks, Ruth!
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Great progress, Joel. I got some feedback myself last week that led me to eliminate a question. It was basically Are you willing to get vulnerable and playful in service of showing up as your most confident self . . . The feedback made me realize I was moving too fast, trying to move people along before I had established trust.
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Q3 would you consider asking if (said problem) was not present what would you imagine you would experience?
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Also Q6-are you open to consider just keeping it a question only, not the qualifier?
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Hi Tracy, I can leave it as a question.
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Thanks Tracy. I’ve asked them just to consider the question, rather than make it a requirement. I’ll leave it that way for now. And I have no problem removing it. It could easily be asked during the chat rather than in the form.
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Qualifier Questions:
1. Are they a busy mom seeking self -care?
2. Are they someone who is curious about energy work?
3. Are they someone seeking treatments to enhance the health of their hair and scalp?What Qualifies them to work with me:
1. Must be open to energy work
2. Feeling stressed out and feeling “off”
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Good work. I love that you focused in on Moms
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Another great post – this made me laugh!