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Again was hoping to have Outcome / Results messaging for my women’s group BUT I decided to practice with Tango and wrote this. Any feedback ? and not sure where I will use it yet…(and is it “bad” etiquette to “accuse” other teachers?? is there a more polite way to say what i’m saying? )

Here is the key reason you’re still not getting the dances…Read More

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AmyHager
1 year, 11 months ago

You are not saying ANY about those other dance instructors. You kept it focused on the emotion and how the client was feeling
JoelElfman
1 year, 11 months ago

You may be talking to a specific audience so these questions might not be relevant.
What does social dance-ability/navigating a social dance floor mean?
What would be an example of a bad habit? I’m just asking for clarity.
By dance reputation do you mean social dance reputation?
- DanielaBorgialli
  1 year, 11 months ago
  
  thanks @joel for your questions.
  so many teachers teach ‘tango’ as choreographed patterns and steps which is not useful for the social dance floor – so they /students don’t actually learn to dance – to lead or to follow.
  a bad habit in tango? there are so many – there are bad lead habits bad follow habits and then bad social dance floor etiquette…Read More
  - JoelElfman
    1 year, 11 months ago
    
    Thanks @Daniela. Great answers, they make things a lot clearer for me. Here is another version based on your responses. I hope this helps.:
    
    Here is the key reason you’re still not getting the dances you want at social events – it’s not your focus, and it’s not your inability to learn something new…. it’s because your attention has been on mak…Read More
    - DanielaBorgialli
      1 year, 11 months ago
      
      Thanks @Joel for this super word sleuthing/word smithing – rewrite… I will massage it some more and then decide where to use it!!! 🙂
      - JoelElfman
        1 year, 11 months ago
        
        You are welcome. Your explanations were super helpful. I look forward to seeing the next iteration.

AmyHager
1 year, 11 months ago

I got a little stuck here but don’t have the right way to organize it: You have thousands of thoughts that go through your head everyday. Did you know most of them are negative? About 80% are negative. Since your body is mostly made up of water and it has been proven that you can program water with your thoughts what do you think happens to our…Read More
- SandyTownsend
  1 year, 11 months ago
  
  Thanks Amy. I’m not sure how to change it either!
  - AmyHager
    1 year, 10 months ago
    
    THIS MAKES SENSE: You have thousands of thoughts that go through your head every day. Did you know most of them are negative? About 80% are negative.
    YOU LOST ME HERE: Since your body is mostly made up of water and it has been proven that you can program water with your thoughts what do you think happens to our bodies when 80% of our thoughts are…Read More

JulianneMiller, AFC®
1 year, 11 months ago

I think this is really great and I’m glad you had an accountability partner. The only word I would disagree with is “demoralizing”. I’m not sure people feel demoralized when they follow the paths set forth by their families or society. Maybe another word is more accurate here? Or tell me why you think that is correct.
- Susanlazar hart
  1 year, 11 months ago
  
  good point, thank you, you have me thinking , thanks